tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2205981882039279640.post5208689411101564848..comments2023-10-30T07:42:10.984-04:00Comments on From Match to Marriage: Why I sometimes go to bed angryShannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04356655617475615318noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2205981882039279640.post-40263067237073468772014-01-26T12:53:29.183-05:002014-01-26T12:53:29.183-05:00I agree. Issues need to be discussed within a day...I agree. Issues need to be discussed within a day, but immediately isn't always the issue. We're prone to "you always" or "you never" or name calling. Time apart seems to help a lot.princessaprhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17661275728902254769noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2205981882039279640.post-45741200049887861372014-01-24T12:58:02.177-05:002014-01-24T12:58:02.177-05:00I think this is works in all anger fueled situatio...I think this is works in all anger fueled situations, not just marriage issues. I am the same way.... my main problem is that people don't respect my need for decompressing, and keep yakking in my face about the issue. Ugh. Robbie https://www.blogger.com/profile/02032003990402174393noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2205981882039279640.post-57867710348235436622014-01-23T21:33:34.123-05:002014-01-23T21:33:34.123-05:00A sign of a good marriage is willing to work out d...A sign of a good marriage is willing to work out differences in fighting styles. Sounds like you and K got that down!Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05940369749048830429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2205981882039279640.post-64286396711324199632014-01-23T20:09:10.137-05:002014-01-23T20:09:10.137-05:00I agree that this is silly advice!! Sometimes I do...I agree that this is silly advice!! Sometimes I do like to hash it out then and there but other times I would rather sleep on it and have definitely gone to bed angry without thinking it is a big deal. I think it is best just to do what works best for you and your other half, but this silly old advice! Fionahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10599185555003951397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2205981882039279640.post-44303719752695808812014-01-23T17:42:03.495-05:002014-01-23T17:42:03.495-05:00Agree, this is overused advice! I'm more of a ...Agree, this is overused advice! I'm more of a has it out immediately type but my husband is like you and I have to admit sometimes waiting until morning is better. Everything just seems better in the morning anyways.Hilary @ Peanut Butter Spoonfulshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00526605614012515551noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2205981882039279640.post-72060378405099620802014-01-23T17:08:58.448-05:002014-01-23T17:08:58.448-05:00that is total BS. you need time to cool off and so...that is total BS. you need time to cool off and sometimes sleep is just the thing. when you're in the heat of the moment, you can't think straight and are often blinded by your anger. when you come back with a level head, you're much more open to his thoughts and feelings instead of: I AM MAD AT YOU! YOU ARE WRONG! APOLOGIZE IMMEDIATELY!! lol<br /><br />-kathy<br /><a href="http://www.lifeinprogress.ca" rel="nofollow">Vodka and Soda</a>Kathy@MoreCoffeeLessTalkyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11044005966979731361noreply@blogger.com