tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2205981882039279640.post1809197240495477346..comments2023-10-30T07:42:10.984-04:00Comments on From Match to Marriage: And then I was reminded why being a working mother can really suck sometimesShannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04356655617475615318noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2205981882039279640.post-62385736521284157472013-02-15T20:04:40.186-05:002013-02-15T20:04:40.186-05:00Nobody could ever replace you in his life. The fac...Nobody could ever replace you in his life. The fact is because he is secure in your bond and relationship he is able to play with that water bowl instead of you. He knows that you are right there watching him play. Perhaps he's even showing off to you something new from the day bc he loves you and wants you to see it. <br /><br />I'm at home with Annabelle and there are moments she will do the same thing-shrug me off for something else that catches her eye... It's totally a toddler thing and not bc he doesn't love or need you! In fact, I think it's the opposite. <br /><br />I hope you feel better soon. Hunter needs his mama and that is without question! AmyJean {Relentless Bride®}https://www.blogger.com/profile/10648725099262152263noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2205981882039279640.post-10464085928345154842013-02-15T15:23:29.591-05:002013-02-15T15:23:29.591-05:00I'm not a working mom, yet, but I can say this...I'm not a working mom, yet, but I can say this. My mom worked my whole life and I never ever felt like she wasn't around or left out at all. Plus since she worked she was able to provide us with not only a very strong example of a parent but with many things like trips or new things that other families couldn't have. My sister and I are constantly making up for it now and are so grateful that she made those sacrifices for us. I think being a working mom is very brave in this day and age! Nathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10029553808937170857noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2205981882039279640.post-83168910566092321612013-02-13T23:40:44.584-05:002013-02-13T23:40:44.584-05:00I'm right there with ya, except I am with my l...I'm right there with ya, except I am with my little one five outta seven days a week. <br /><br />I have no real advice for you, except don't get too down on yourself. You're an amazing mom and he loves you very much. Sean Mariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10326658791690401591noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2205981882039279640.post-21030534384974899472013-02-13T12:37:19.048-05:002013-02-13T12:37:19.048-05:00I know exactly how you feel. By the time I get hom...I know exactly how you feel. By the time I get home, it's 6:30. I rush to get dinner ready for him (forget us) and then feed him dinner, bath time, story time and bedtime. There isn't much play time in there and it sucks. Sometimes I come home, he just looks at me and continues to go about his business. I get a small smile. That's all. But like you said, I still pick him up and smother him with kisses. I think eventually they will show their love for us, their mamas. Because no matter what, in the end, we are their moms and they will forever have a bond with us. At least that's what I keep telling myself. AV5848https://www.blogger.com/profile/03921132907759374974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2205981882039279640.post-85503985911469720802013-02-13T09:55:18.498-05:002013-02-13T09:55:18.498-05:00Well, if you were home with him all day, he may be...Well, if you were home with him all day, he may be difficult for you all day. There are phases. Usually, mine is a Daddy's Girl, but she's flipped lately which is nice. She cuddles more with him than with me though. He still loves his mama, of course.princessaprhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17661275728902254769noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2205981882039279640.post-39537776949844117402013-02-12T21:05:01.932-05:002013-02-12T21:05:01.932-05:00It is so tough. We want them to be happy and okay ...It is so tough. We want them to be happy and okay when not with us... but at the same time we want them to 'want' to be with us... just hard to have it both ways right?! I am sure Hunter is just consumed with all the excitement of his surroundings in moments like this. Sometimes, like tonight for example, I could tell Lids wanted to say goodnight to her Daddy who was nursing a bad headache in bed so I called her into the room, she came in so quickly, got on the bed blowing kisses and crawling to her Daddy as quickly as she could... then spotted his ipad on the nightstand and went right for that... forgetting all about Daddy. There is just so much going on in this world for toddlers.. it can make them forget about the other important things (like Mommys and Daddys) at things but of course Hunter is still crazy for you and values those hours at the end of the day with you so very very much.. I just know it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2205981882039279640.post-17222952162215087592013-02-12T16:13:04.530-05:002013-02-12T16:13:04.530-05:00I too feel this way often. Chloe is a daddy's...I too feel this way often. Chloe is a daddy's girl through and through. You'd think after being with him all day and not seeing me, she'd run to me after I get home, but that isn't always the case. And it's really hard to not take it personally. Another blogger I read wrote on this same thing today, how her son hates to leave daycare now and she knows she should be happy he likes it so much, but it hurts her feelings. I say that just to let you know you are not alone in this at all. Soon he'll be into a new phase where all he wants is his mama. These little ones want what they want when they want it...but it changes so quickly. Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16875307109685150842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2205981882039279640.post-22877351159146229672013-02-12T15:33:59.519-05:002013-02-12T15:33:59.519-05:00Hugs!
It is just a toddler stage.
I was home ...Hugs! <br />It is just a toddler stage. <br /><br />I was home all day with C on Thursday and then again on Monday while Josh was at work and all day it was "Daddy?!", either up stairs, downstairs depending where we were. Being stuck at home with Mom was clearly not enough. Kristenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16501889470862351894noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2205981882039279640.post-15651860865011497372013-02-12T15:30:49.431-05:002013-02-12T15:30:49.431-05:00I feel the exact same way! There's just never ...I feel the exact same way! There's just never enough time together anymore. If it makes you feel any better, Chloe spent 5 days at my Mom's. When I walked in to pick her up, she had a huge smile on her face. I unbuckled her from her seat for hugs and kisses, and she had no interest in me at all. After almost a WEEK. I try not to worry about those things too much. Playing is always more interesting than mommy haha. Venassahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06704438571731585603noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2205981882039279640.post-23893797429550393462013-02-12T15:11:53.716-05:002013-02-12T15:11:53.716-05:00Oh honey. I know. I know. I wish I could say somet...Oh honey. I know. I know. I wish I could say something to make it that much better, but I have nothing. It sucks fat asshole. Truly.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00589334911815524759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2205981882039279640.post-42337034685314964042013-02-12T15:05:02.352-05:002013-02-12T15:05:02.352-05:00This is definitely something I've heard from l...This is definitely something I've heard from lots of parents, and I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling this way. Even though I know it doesn't make you feel any better, I think a lot of toddlers do that on occasion, even if they have a stay-at-home parent. Still, I know what you mean about it being harder to accept after having spent the entire day away from him. Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13226523010102160874noreply@blogger.com